unaccompanied minor

It was summer of 2007 and I was traveling from Croatia to Columbia, SC. I had been to SC before – I was an exchange student there, and I was coming back to visit my host family. Anyway, I was seventeen at the time and quite excited not only to see my host family again, but also for the traveling experience. Well, it turned out to be quite an experience, that’s for sure.

On my way to Columbia there were a few bad events, but not as bad as on the way back. First, on one of my flights (Munich to DC) I was seated next to a man who kept staring at the magazine I was reading, talking loudly with his friends seated behind us, getting up every 5 minutes (I was in the aisle seat, so I had to move every time he’d get up) and staring at the in-flight movie I was watching on my screen instead of turning on his own screen! It was really creepy and annoying to be stuck next to him for approximately 8 hours, but I didn’t want to cause commotion so I kept my mouth shut.

When we landed in DC I had to go through customs. This lady who worked at the airport accompanied me and another girl since we were minors. She kept yelling at us, but I could barely understand her since her English wasn’t that good. It was embarrassing, running after her and trying to figure out what she wanted us to do, while the passers-by stared. Going through customs seemed to last forever, so when it was finally done I couldn’t wait to leave for SC. But, when I boarded the plane, it was announced that the flight was delayed due to weather. We had to sit there and wait. And wait. And wait. And the hours passed. And a couple of false hopes for takeoff came and went. And people got impatient. And take-off seemed like fantasy at that point. Thankfully, the crew was really kind, so that made it easier. Well, I made it to SC and was so exhausted by the time I got there, but mostly just happy I made it.

So, that was a piece of cake compared to my experiences on the way back. It all started with my flight from Columbia to DC being delayed. Not again, I thought. It was only delayed for 45 minutes, but that was enough for me to miss my connection to Munich. So, when I got to DC I stood at the end of a VERY long line to book a new flight. I had stood in the line for about an hour or two only to find out I had been standing in the wrong line! The employees at the counter told me they couldn’t do anything for me and that the line to rebook international flights was in a completely different part of the airport.

There was really nothing I could do, so I made my way to the other line. As soon as I took one glance at the line, I died a little inside. It was going to be a LONG day. This line was even longer than the previous one, and full of people with screaming children and various B.O.’s. How fun it was to stand there for four hours. Anyway, it was about 9 pm when it was my turn to rebook, and I was optimistic about getting on a new flight and leaving DC that same night. Oh, how naive that turned out to be.

All flights to Munich were full, and I couldn’t get out of DC til the next evening. So I told the lady working there to try to get me on a different flight, anywhere in Europe, just as long as there was a connection to Croatia from there. So, she got me on a flight to Zurich, Switzerland… but it would leave around 5 pm the next afternoon. So, I had to spend the night in DC and since I was a minor, I couldn’t get a hotel room, so I would have to sleep at the airport. While that was sinking in, another employee came by and started freaking out about me being a minor. She grabbed my passport and plane ticket and told me to follow her. As she was literally dragging me across the airport, a fellow passenger I got acquainted with asked me if everything was okay, and she started screaming at him not to talk to me or come close to me. I felt awful.

She told me to sit down on a chair and to wait for her; she said she’d take me to the unaccompanied minor’s room. So I sat there and waited but she never came back. By the time I realized she wouldn’t come back, it was late, all the blankets and pillows at the airport were taken, and pretty much all the employees were gone. So I slept on the chair. Well, I didn’t really sleep since I was freezing and I could hear the sound of a vacuum cleaner all night.

When I woke up in the morning, I was a mess. But then I realized my passport and plane ticket were with that lady. Oh great. So, I stood in the line – again, to get my documents back. Luckily, they found my documents. So, I spent the rest of the day talking to strangers, looking around the stores and just roaming around the airport.

I’ll never forget that airport in DC. I think I still remember where every terminal, store or restaurant is. Well, if nothing else, at least I got a good story out of it.

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They Lost My Son!

November 24, 2009

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My son flew from New England to North Carolina on Continental. He was 13 at the time. I paid $15.00 to book the flight by phone (you can’t do it online) and $100.00 extra for Continental to take him on and off the plane.

 When the plane landed in NC, my son did as he had been told – he waited for a flight attendant to come and escort him off the plane and stay with him until his party met him. My son had no paperwork or tickets, the airline had those per their instructions. So my son waits and waits. Finally, everyone is off the plane and the flight attendant comes and tells my son he has to get of the plane. So my son exits the plane alone. He gets out to the terminal, the door shuts behind him. No one there. Fortunately I had given him a cell phone. He calls me and I’m able to walk him to the person meeting him.

I tried calling Continental and got an answering machine. I called the FAA emergency hotline and within an hour I had a call from Continental. Despite complaints to Continental I had to fight to get my $100.00 back. Even the TV stations that covered the story couldn’t get a comment from Continental. They never apologized.

On top of this, we discovered later that Continental had no record of him in their computer which explained why the party meeting him was unable to get a pass to go to the gate. So using two phone lines, one to my son, the other to the party, I was able to get my son safe.

Don’t count on the airline to get anything right. Give your child a cell phone!

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My story probably isn’t as bad as most. I had started out from Moscow, connecting through Vienna and then to Frankfurt, so I had already been flying for 5 hours. At this point I was on a 9 hour flight from Frankfurt to NYC, then was getting on a 6 hour connecting flight back to San Francisco. For people that really don’t like flying (like me) this was a miserable day to begin with, the “incident” only compounded the misery.

I was sat next to an unchaperoned kid (about 10 I’d say). One of those in-air care deals where the stewardesses look after him or something.

Anyways, the kid slept for the first 3 hours of the flight… but then he woke up and started shaking me, and making a motion like he was going to be sick. With 8 nieces and nephews I recognized the universal sign language for “I’m about to puke.”

So I sprung into action, desperately looking for the barf bag… which of course was at the very bottom of the pouch. Just as I was getting the bag open the kid barfed. I think I managed to get about 30% of it in the bag. The rest ended up on my arms, pants, shoes and of course all over both of our seats.

I called the stewardess over and got out of my seat to let her deal with it, while I went and cleaned up. I asked if there were any other free seats on the plane… but it was entirely booked.

The stewardesses had sympathy for me and I hung out with them in the kitchen for the remaining six hours of the flight. They were fun, and I had a good time talking with them… so the flight wasn’t a complete nightmare.

I know it wasn’t the kid’s fault, and I don’t blame him. It was just unlucky seating for me.

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London to Washington/Dulles, 1995. I was flying back home from a tour of Ireland with my mother. There was a chubby and hyper kid in the seat in front of us who would not stop moving for the entire 8 hour flight. We could hear him talking to the flight attendants and the passengers around us, telling them that he is a UMOC (unaccompanied minor only child), and in a snooty voice that his parents sent him to boarding school in England because the schools in America weren’t good enough. To make matters worse, he kept wanting to turn around and talk to me. I refused to interact with him for most of the flight.

We were seated near the wing, and in mid-flight I got up to go to the bathroom in the back of the plane. I don’t know how this happened because it apparently violates the laws of physics, but this kid was in his seat when I left, and when I arrived at the bathroom he was laying on the floor back there, rolling around like a fool! Maybe he had a twin, I don’t know, but that would contradict his declaration of being “unaccompanied” and an “only child.” How he pulled that trick off remains a mystery to me 14 years later.

Anyway, near the end of the flight, being worn down by nearly 8 hours of nonstop hyperactivity, seat bouncing, and badgering, I agreed to converse with him, and even mess with him a little. He said “My name is Stuart, but call me William, I prefer it. What’s your name?”

I looked at him sternly with a straight face and tried to think of an intimidating-sounding name that wasn’t my own, and in a gruff voice I said “JACK!” But that did not deter the boy, who then proceeded to tell me all about how he has to go to school in England because American schools were no good. My mum laughs at this story to this day, and when it was happening needed all her strength to keep from laughing when I disclosed my fake name.

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