FA Stalks Former Husband on Honeymoon

July 11, 2014

in Attendant & Pilot Stories

My fiancé and I decided to get married someplace far away, with the destination known by few, because his ex-wife was on a continuous two-year rampage of harassment, phone calls, texting, bad-mouthing to his children, kicking in the back of his company vehicle… and the list goes on. We did not want our wedding to be spoiled by some inappropriate behavior by someone who could not control herself.

We had a private dinner for the two of us and our blended family for which we hired a magician/comedian the night before we flew off to our wedding/honeymoon. We had 8 wonderful nights and 9 wonderful days in Jamaica – the country that we love.

On our return flight home, after we were seated and settled, my new hubby leans over to me and says, “Oh my God, the witch is on this flight!” (Because of her bizarre behavior, we dubbed her “the witch.”) And yes, she was on our flight home.

As a flight attendant she somehow accessed our personal flight information and booked herself to “work” our flight home. The only information she had to find out where we were going and when we were returning is her ex-husband’s name. Did she violate our privacy? ABSOLUTELY.

During the flight she wandered up and down the opposite aisle completely ignoring us. I snickered as I watched her size 18 self have to go up and down the aisle at an angle because she could not walk the aisle facing forward. She ignored us the entire flight except at one point she walked down our aisle and rammed her very large hip into my shoulder. On accident or just due to her size? I will never know.

It was a very uneventful flight home because I guess she knew that if she started anything on the plane it could be considered a federal offense, so she continued to ignore us. In customs she got in the line next to us and began calling my hubby’s name and having her little flight attendant friends do the same. I can only assume the flight attendants did not know that we had already filed a harassment complaint against her with the police department and this had just jumped up a level to “stalking.”

All in all, the flight home was kind of funny in an odd way. It showed how much self-control and self-respect she DOESN’T have, but the worse part is that she told her children, four of them aging from 9-16, that it was “God’s will” she was on that flight. The children continue to be confused as they watch their mother’s bizarre behavior, but I don’t think any of the new dramas she cooks up come anywhere close in oddity as parking her broom at the airport and hopping on the return flight of our honeymoon. God’s will? What are the chances? And I think He has bigger things to worry about than helping her show her self-hatred in such a bizarre way.

{ 11 comments… read them below or add one }

Belle July 12, 2014 at 12:36 pm

I hope you informed the airline about her behavior. Accessing your personal information is very likely not permitted by an employee, and to do it so that she can harass you should be grounds for dismissal.


James July 12, 2014 at 5:28 pm

Pardon me, but why are you flying the same airline she works?


Trixi July 15, 2014 at 4:30 pm

This post sucks.


Chris July 24, 2014 at 11:16 pm

I gotta agree with James…why did you fly the exact same airline that she works on? If I had a stalker ex-wife that worked as a FA on an airline, I'd make damn sure to avoid that airline at all costs. You are just setting yourself up for problems when you enter her realm of employment.


anonmousebites August 4, 2014 at 1:24 am

Yes she seems unreasonable but wth are you thinking booking with the company she works for? It sounds like you are baiting her, making fun of her size and telling HER kids about her behaviour. You and your husband call her a 'witch' in front of them.

You call your family a blended one – no it's not, you are happy to have her kids as long as she is out of the picture.

You and your husband need to grow up! I bet you went on and posted on Facebook about the witch lol. Your stepchildren will end up hating you, this is the woman who gave birth to them


Passerby August 13, 2014 at 9:52 am

So… she didn’t actually do anything to you? You’re basically just assuming that she accessed your records (I’m sure all flight attendants have access to this information) and booked herself to work your flight, so that she could do… absolutely nothing?

Basically you made this post so you could brag on yourself and rag on her, and it makes me inclined to think that her “campaign of harassment” more likely exists only in your head… or is a serious case of projection of your own immature, bad behavior.

I can see your future now, because I’ve seen people just like you follow this pattern. That “blended” family you’re so proud of right now? One day those kids are going to get tired of you and their father slagging on their mother constantly like the whiny oversized children that you are. They’re going to leave, and you’re going to start wailing “SHE’S TURNED THEM AGAINST US! SHE’S POISONED THEIR MINDS!” and it will be everyone’s fault but your own. You and your new hubby’s love of being jerks to other people won’t hold you together and eventually you’ll either be the next “witch” yourself or you’ll be living in the same house but in separate bedrooms with both of you convinced you’re some sort of martyr for putting up with each other’s crap.

Enjoy your miserable life ahead, lady. I can pretty much guarantee you the “witch” is going to have a better one.


Tawny September 3, 2014 at 5:17 pm

You sound like the real "witch." From your words about her size, down to the huge coincidence about the airline, this is a real crock. You were probably having an affair with her husband while they were still married and didn't see anything wrong with it. MYOB as Ann Landers used to say.


Jes October 3, 2014 at 11:57 am

NO sympathy here. AS many airlines as there are and you deliberately chose to book a flight on your alleged stalker's? And then she didn't do anything. Sounds like you were hoping for drama. I think the nightmare here is you.


Chris October 3, 2014 at 5:17 pm

As many people have pointed out, it's probably best you stop this standoff-ish behavior with your husband's ex-wife. Yeah, she may not be an angel. You may not like her very much at all. There is probably a history of conflict with each other. But you guys have common kids. How is the behavior ok for your stepchildren?

As the grow up, they are going to become more and more aware of the divide, and your behavior indirectly forces them to choose a side in the matter. Maybe instead of making obnoxious posts like this and bad-mouthing her every chance you get, you three should get to a point of mutual tolerance. I'm not saying be best friends, just be able to see each other once in awhile while dropping off the children. And for the love of all that is good, don't bad mouth them in front of the kids. You are an adult, and this situation is much tougher on them than it is you.


sarah October 7, 2014 at 1:26 pm

considering that we can't "book" which flights we work and screw scheduling tells us what we are doing i seriously doubt she did this on purpose. maybe she's not the one with the problem?


luvthemjets January 27, 2015 at 8:58 am

The newlywed Hubby is probably a pilot for the same airline as the ex and was flying for free. Sounds like a cheapskate pilot!


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